I am currently in Belgrade, Serbia as I write this. A few days ago I was sitting at a café when I started chatting with a very attractive older woman. She was in her 50’s – confident, classy and dynamic. We had many laughs as we shared stories about our travels,... read more
As I develop my sexuality I often can’t help but feel the connection between creativity, confidence, and sexual energy. I find that within my body there is a force that requires growth and creative expression that is often asleep. The more I explore, the more... read more
This is not intended to be a debate on whether or not prostitution should be legal or judge whether it’s morally right or wrong. Instead this article focuses on learning why at one time, prostitution was considered sacred and to explore the role of a sacred... read more
I am writing this, because a family member very close to me has experienced shame, fear and deep insecurities with his sexuality. It wasn’t until he met a very powerful and sexually confident woman who was able to reprogram his illusions and expose him to new... read more
One day I woke up to a humbling realization. I wasted so much precious time by being in a painful broken relationship that had reached a point where I felt it couldn’t be fixed. For an entire year I felt anger and anxiousness for the duration of the time we spent and... read more
My lover and I had been together for 6 years when one day I experienced one of the most excruciating pains I had ever felt during sex. He was a very patient lover, and for whatever reason on that particular day I impatiently decided to rush into it without giving my... read more
After having one of my best orgasms, I started laughing uncontrollably. I had no idea why I was laughing, but it was uncontrollable and it continued for about 10 minutes. After I finally calmed down I went to sleep. The following morning I awakened in an ecstatic... read more
Dear sister, Thank you. Thank you for opening your heart and opening your body for my beloved. Thank you for being vulnerable with him. Thank you for sharing precious moments and organic bliss with him. Thank you for enriching his life. You can give him things I never... read more
This week I had a revelation after having one session with my beautiful, intuitive and multi talented friend (You can read about her here). The revelation came in two parts. The power of choice The power of internal truth – aligning with my truth. Since our... read more
Couple of weeks ago I was challenged on my beliefs on why women are circumcised? Before I get into the details, I realized that pure universal knowledge includes all levels of consciousness. What we choose to accept or judge is up to us. When we cling to one pattern... read more
There has been so much debate around the topic of circumcision and it’s still hard to say if this practice should be continued as a default gold standard in both customary and cultural settings or if it should become an elective procedure. Some suggest it’s for... read more
Tantric philosophy approaches the vagina from a place of love and respect and giving a yoni massage is a means of honoring women. A yoni is an ancient tantric term used to describe a woman’s vulva and vagina. In Sanskrit it’s translated to sacred space. The original... read more
A lingam is an ancient tantric term used to describe the penis. In Sanskrit, it’s translated to “Shaft of Light” or “Wand of Light.” A lingam massage is a massage of the male genitals using a variety of grips and strokes. A lingam Massage allows a man to... read more
As men, we have a longing to become the best versions of our self. We realize that to live whatever a successful life means to us, we have to be confident in the actions we’re taking. One of the best ways to become the best versions of our self is to continue to grow... read more
What is a life of meaning? Surely everyone’s journey along his or her unique path brings meaning and spiritual growth? If true happiness and fulfillment are the keys to a meaningful life, what exactly is real happiness? I did not always ponder these questions; there... read more
Almost all men at some point in their life experience Erectile Dysfunction. Often women wonder what is going on with him and what to do about it. Many men feel embarrassed or ashamed to talk to anyone so they pretend not to be affected by it. Nothing can be more... read more
It would not be easy to number the things I have learned in the two years since falling in love with another man. Although if I did, I might discover that the number is actually finite—because sometimes it feels infinite. It feels as though I am still (and endlessly... read more
I was recently having a group discussion with a few friends (3 men and 2 women) when the topic of sex came up. It always turns into an entertaining and educational discussion and sometimes into an article. One of my lady friends was rather annoyed because she said “I... read more
It’s exciting when we first start talking with someone new—but when is too soon to start having sex? We live in a different society than we did even a decade ago. Sex is everywhere, and between Snap-chatting and private Instagram, there is no shortage of ways that we... read more
Two years ago when I was attending a Tao and Tantra workshop, I kept hearing the term “Sacred Sexuality.” I had a very basic understanding of what this meant, but didn’t fully comprehend its significance. While I’ve deeply felt the difference between casual sex and... read more
Your videos are a life changer. When I first met my girlfriend she was so shy. I remembered what you said in the videos about being patient and creating a safe space for her. That was life changing for us. Not only is she able to trust me and open up to me now, she’s able to have multiple orgasms without holding back or being shy.
Thank you so much for helping us. We are so open and connect on so many different levels now.
It’s very hard for me to admit this, but at the age of 47 I couldn’t believe there was so much I didn’t know about a woman’s body. After talking to you I couldn’t believe what I was hearing and how behind I am in my knowledge.
Where have you been all my life? My wife has never wanted so much sex. After 10 years she’s ﬁnally learning how to do her muscle exercise. She said she’s never had so much pleasure before. I wish I had met you earlier.